Sex addiction seems to be Hollywood's newest obsession with the
dramatic comedy "Thanks for Sharing," the drama "Shame," the comedy "Don
Jon," and television's "Californication." Although writer-director
Stuart Blumberg surely had good intentions for his film "Thanks for
Sharing," its focus is too broad to satisfy most movie goers. Perhaps
that's the secret of success for those other productions about sex
addiction: a narrowed focus on one person and one addiction.
Thanks for Sharing
(which gets its name from the meeting mantra expressed by recovering
addicts) explores three men in a sex addiction recovery group and to a
lesser extent one woman. The film looks briefly at their romantic
relationships, families, friendships with each other, symptoms,
temptations, and the overall group dynamics. That's a lot to cover in
112 minutes - too much, in fact.
The Story of Three Addicts
Mark
Ruffalo stars as Adam, a recovering sex addict who is five years
"sober." He's embarking on a new romance with Phoebe (Gwyneth Paltrow), a
beautiful cancer-surviving over-achiever. She immediately reveals her
breasts are fake because the old ones tried to kill her. However, Adam
gives an evasive half-truth when she asks him if he's an alcoholic
because she wants to avoid addicts like her ex-boyfriend. His initial
secret will obviously surface later at the most inconvenient time
possible. We learn almost nothing about Phoebe's history or why she
consistently attracts addicts into her life, nor does Adam share the
story of how his addiction originated.
His sponsor, Mike (Tim
Robbins, whose performance is exceptionally strong here), gave his wife
(Joely Richardson) a disease through his former sex addiction (now 12
years sober) and deals ineffectively with his grown son (Patrick Fugit),
who has an ongoing drug addiction. While Mike remains the 12-Step guru
at their daily meetings, he's often out of control with his family. The
hints of family dysfunction could be a movie entirely by themselves.